oy

i'm not jewish, it's true. but spend enough time working in nyc banking firms and, well, as someone i used to work with once said, you become an honorary jew just by virtue of acquiring their holidays.
so, OY because, well, i have been out indulging myself in some alcohol, an event which is so much more rare than it was when i lived in nyc (thank god for the subway...or not) and i happened to get involved in a conversation about cheating lovers...not my favorite topic in the last 3 months.
oy, oy, oy.
my one question was never answered though, and i don't think it ever is: why don't you just break up instead of cheating? people must be out to wound others--that's my only semi-valid theory.
eh, or they are just ridiculously disrespectful.
OR BOTH.
lol.
anyway. beyond all that, i am pleased to see the re-emergence of an old friend who disappeared for a while. that's always pleasant.
unless you've slept together.
then, sometimes, it sucks.
>wink<
i think that cali is growing on me, simply because...
well, the usual reason--i can start over.
again.